The Important of Networking, and Following Through.
Today I had the privilege of sitting in on a brainstorming session with Jason Blanchard and members of the Malibu Connection. They reminded me the importance of being in a good and supportive network. I bring this up today because, for a long while I let networking and friendships fall to wayside. This was a disaster for my freelance career, luckily I was still staying in contact with a few people at Full Sail or otherwise I might not even have the job I have now.
I’m not bringing this up to say “Hey, that guy didn’t do it and he’s telling me too!” The reason I bring it up is; I saw how far some people have got busting their hump and staying in touch with people. This is more of a “I let it slip, and now I’m behind.”
DO NOT DO THAT!
You can conceivably take thirty minutes a day doing correspondences and maintain a good relationship with people. Social gaming, email, texting, or any other passive form of communication can be the bulk of the load, with selective phone calls, face time (not the app), or get-togethers composing the rest. Remember to rotate the passive and aggressive for people, otherwise you will fall too far out of their sphere of influence and become “just another person they know.”
I’m not advocating using people; this is actually quite the contrary. If you are investing time on a daily basis in a relationship, it becomes more. Will it be a friendship? Who knows, but it will gain meaning in your and that person’s life. During that time your lives, and goals, will become more intertwined. This creates a win for everyone. I am very much about everyone winning, or at the very least not losing too bad.
TODAYS ASSIGNMENT:
Create three networking lists and set aside 30 minutes a day for correspondence.
The first is the daily list, about 20 minutes of your correspondence time. These people are the ones that you are already working with, or it they are part of your “next prospective gig”. No more than 12 people.
List two, is the weekly list, about 5 minutes of your correspondence time. These are the next 5 people you want on your daily list.
List three is the dream list. These are the 5 people you “dream” were on your list (or their gate keepers) and you’ll contact them once a month, till they bump up a list.
If you realized this list will grow and the time you take doing it will expand, you’re partially correct. You’ll come to learn that not everyone needs/wants daily correspondence. That will allow you and extra slot. Some people will become everyday friends; they won’t need to be on the list… you see them all the time. You get the idea.
So go out there… be awesome. Cue montage.
- Bill
A final note, a special thanks to Jason Blanchard.
Creating the list's is a great suggestion, its something I started to do a few months ago when I started at fullsail. Even if I'm just reading what different people are up to from facebook updates it keeps me focused on what i want to achieve and challenge myself to do something great.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could do this, but I've always had a problem with speaking up. I always feel like I have nothing important to say, and I really don't like having phone conversations, I call someone when I have a need or want, not to chat. When you feel like you don't matter to the world, you don't seek it out. I know you're going to argue this, but it is, what it is. *hugs* though, cuz you have inspired me to at least take the steps into trying to be useful this year.
ReplyDeleteDiamond, believe it or not, I have felt that way too. Its really hard putting yourself out there, especially when you think no one is listening or what you do just isn't good enough yet. That is my problem, it is never good enough and I think no one is going to like it. You are in luck though, you can count me as a fan.
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